First Kiss

If the first kiss is bad you have just greatly decreased your chances of ever having any type of relationship with the girl of your dreams. All women, either consciously or subconsciously, base the relationship on the first kiss. This is not a generalization but rather a fact.

Come prepared. Don’t be going in for that kiss after taking chowing down at an all you can eat onion and garlic buffet and ALWAYS have breath mints or gum with you. Nothing can scare off a pretty lady faster than Tyrannosaurus breath.

Don’t rush and be gentle, at first.. The first kiss should always be slow and deliberate. Not only is the much more seductive but it also greatly decreases the chances of you missing or going too fast and banging teeth (very very bad). Keeping your eyes open until the last second also helps avoid near misses however, don’t leave your eyes open the entire time other wise it will make her feel uncomfortable. Nobody likes to be stared at. If it makes it easier for you, you can gently guide her face with your hands cupping the outside of her head. I don’t recommend this unless you’re just practicing because you could easily grip to hard and cause her to feel as if she is being kiss raped or could accidentally pull her hair.

Move in close enough so all that she has to do is move her head to close the distance. If she really wants to kiss you then she will. If she does not, she will greatly respect you for not forcing the first kiss. Remember, the first kiss lays the foundation for the rest of the relationship whether it be purely based on promiscuity or something much more.

Once the kiss has been initiated, copy her. She will nine out of ten times kiss you how she wants to be kissed. When she closes the distance, notice how much force she is using to kiss you and how her lips are shaped. Being gentle in the beginning allows for easy adjustments. If she is being very gentle, she is probably nervous and timid so you should be gentle as well. If she is applying a lot of force she has probably been waiting for you to kiss her for a while. Go ahead and kiss her with a little more force if this is the case. After you have copied her for a few seconds you can either continue copying her or change it up just a little and see if she follows. If she follows, you know you have some free range.

You must pay attention to all of the small details as the small details are what will separate you from every other guy that wants to get there lips on the phenomenal woman you have found.